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Missouri Amendment 3

aholtmaster@gmail.com (Austin Holt) — Tue, 15 Oct 2024 14:00:04 GMT

Our State and our nation in crisis:

the values of a follower of christ and the values setforth

in Missouri amendment 3 are incompatable.

Photo Credit: Jim Pelis, Cass County, MO

Friends:

Thank you for following us here on the Blog at The Conscious Christian Marriage. We hope God is blessing your marriage in a powerful way this week.

Whereas we usually do not engage in political discussion here on the blog, this issue is simply too important to ignore, because this is not a mere political issue, this is a morale issue on the largest scale.

As Christians, we are a moral authority, led by the Creator of the universe, and therefore, it is our responsibility to weigh in on moral issues. The Church MUST become more active in weighing in on, and influencing our culture on moral issues -- especially ones of this magnitude.

Admittingly, we don't weigh in enough, or as often as what may be considered necessary -- but here we are.

If you wish to understand our position in detail, you'll have some watching/reading to do.

However, if you prefer the Cliff Notes version, here you go:

1. We will love you no matter how you vote.

2. If you are a Bible believing, follower of Jesus, you cannot vote yes on Amendment 3. The clash of values is simply too great.

3. If you claim to follow Christ, and still believe you can vote yes, you are either misled, misinformed or need to find a community of Bible believing Christians who will love you, support you, lead you and encourage you to dig down and understand where the lack of continuity is in your heart.

Period, end of story.

Rather than re-write and present very similar points and positions, we want to offer a sermon by Pastor John Lindell of James River Church based out of Springfield, MO. We have had the pleasure of spending time with John, and we can tell you, that his heart is unlike any other.

He presents an incredible message on the topics of abortion and amendment 3. I have prepared an extensive outline of his sermon you can find below, or, you can watch the message by going here or clicking the image below.

We stand behind this message 100%. If you want to know our position, it is the one presented in Pastor John's message.

Summary:

Pastor John explains that Amendment 3 seeks to enshrine reproductive rights into the Missouri Constitution but is written vaguely and ambiguously. He highlights how the amend ment could expand beyond abortion to include rights to other medical procedures like sterilization, gender reassignment surgery, surrogacy, and the removal of reproductive organs. The phrases “all matters” and “but not limited to” create a scope that could lead to unintended legal interpretations, giving courts the power to expand these rights.

Key Pro-Life Laws That Would Be Struck Down if Amendment 3 Passes:

Partial-Birth Abortion Ban: This ban, which prohibits abortions during the later stages of pregnancy where the baby is partially delivered, would be repealed.

8-Week Heartbeat Ban: Missouri's law that bans abortions after the detection of a fetal heartbeat at around 8 weeks would be eliminated.

14- and 18-Week Abortion Bans: These restrictions would be removed, allowing abortions after 14 and 18 weeks, respectively.

Pain-Capable Abortion Ban: The ban on abortions where a fetus is capable of feeling pain, typically around 20 weeks, would no longer be enforceable.

72-Hour Waiting Period: This law requires women to wait 72 hours after their initial consultation before having an abortion, providing time for reflection.

Parental Consent and Notification: Current law mandates that minors obtain consent from at least one legal guardian before undergoing an abortion, with the other guardian being notified. Amendment 3 would remove this requirement, giving minors autonomy in reproductive decisions.

Abortion Risk Disclosure: Missouri law currently requires that abortion providers inform women of the risks associated with abortion, including infection, hemorrhage, cervical damage, harm to future pregnancies, and psychological consequences. This law would be overturned.

Sonogram Law: This law requires that women be given the opportunity to view a sonogram of the unborn child and hear the heartbeat (if audible) before making a final decision on abortion.

Other Laws Affected:

Hospital Requirement for Abortions After 16 Weeks: Abortions performed at 16 weeks or later must currently take place in hospitals; this requirement would be repealed.

Ban on Taxpayer-Funded Abortions: Missouri law prevents public funds from being used for abortions, except to save the life of the mother. Amendment 3 would eliminate this ban.

Physician Requirement: Currently, abortions must be performed by licensed physicians. If Amendment 3 passes, non-physicians could perform abortions without legal repercussions.

Scientific and Legal Citations:

Alliance Defending Freedom (ADF): Lindell cites the ADF, a conservative Christian legal group, which has provided a 9-page brief outlining the potential ramifications of Amendment 3. ADF argues that the amendment's broad language could lead to interpretations that include gender reassignment surgeries, the removal of reproductive organs, and sterilizations.

Dr. Jerome Lejeune: Lindell quotes geneticist Dr. Lejeune, who stated: “Life has a very long history, but each individual has a very neat beginning: the moment of its conception.” Lejeune’s research on DNA and genetics supports the argument that life begins at conception, backing the theological claim with scientific evidence.

C enters for Disease Control (CDC) Statistics: Lindell references CDC data showing that as of 2015, approximately 27% of abortions were chemically induced. Today, he states, chemical abortions represent around 60% of all abortions in the U.S. These abortions, which use drugs like mifepristone and misoprostol, are not tracked in the same way as surgical abortions, potentially making the official abortion numbers much higher than reported.

Mental Health Research:

Lindell references several studies linking abortion to long-term mental health issues:

- A 98% increase in mental health disorders among women who have had abortions.

- A 59% increased risk of suicidal thoughts.

- A 61% increased risk of mood disorders and social anxiety.

- A 280% increased risk of substance abuse (non-alcoholic).

- Study from Finland: Found a strong correlation between abortion and suicide, with a threefold increase in the suicide rate for women who have had abortions compared to those who gave birth.

Biblical Arguments:

God's Involvement in Creation: Lindell emphasizes that life is a divine gift, created by God personally and intentionally.

He references multiple Bible verses to underscore this point:

Psalm 139:13-16: "You knit me together in my mother's womb." God is depicted as personally involved in the creation of each life.

Jeremiah 1:5: "Before I formed you in the womb, I knew you." Lindell uses this to emphasize that God’s purpose for human beings begins even before conception.

Exodus 4:11: Lindell explains that even children with birth defects are created intentionally by God, quoting: "Who has made man's mouth? Who makes him mute or deaf, seeing or blind? Is it not I, the Lord?"

Ecclesiastes 11:5: Lindell mentions this verse, which speaks to the mystery of God’s work in forming life, encouraging believers to trust in divine sovereignty.

God's Judgment: Lindell warns that God will judge nations that "pollute their land" with murder, equating abortion with murder.

Psalm 106:38: Refers to the ancient practice of child sacrifice and its consequences on the land: “They polluted the land with murder.”

Numbers 35:33: "Murder pollutes the land." This is used to argue that abortion has spiritually polluted America and will bring divine judgment.

Call to Action:

Vote No on Amendment 3:

Lindell calls for Christians to take a firm stance against the amendment, stating that voting against it is necessary to protect unborn children.

Raise Awareness:

He encourages his congregation to speak out by placing yard signs, posting on social media, and discussing the amendment with friends and neighbors. He argues that when people understand the true implications of the amendment, many will be shocked and compelled to vote against it.

Support for Women and Alternatives to Abortion:

Lindell offers compassion to women who have had abortions, reminding them that God's grace, forgiveness, and healing are available. He encourages women struggling with post-abortion trauma to seek help through the church or the Pregnancy Care Center, which offers post-abortion counseling.

Adoption Advocacy:

He shares personal stories, including his father-in-law’s adoption after being conceived in rape, and highlights adoption as a redemptive alternative to abortion. He also shares the story of Justin Janer, a pastor whose birth mother chose adoption over abortion, which profoundly affected his life and ministry.

Pastor John ends with a prayer for Missouri and the nation, asking for God’s mercy and for the defeat of Amendment 3. He asks God to heal those affected by abortion and calls for a spiritual awakening that would lead people to understand the value of life and the need for repentance."

Pastor John... Well. Done.

Lastly, h ere are (2) common arguments we hear FOR Amendment 3, or for Abortion in general, that are not addressed in Pastor Lindell’s sermon that we want to highlight:

1. “But the Amendment also does some good -- it helps women get access to certain care, medications, procedures…. If we get rid of this Amendment, we are saying NO to good healthcare for women…how can you be okay with that? ”

This is, essentially, not true. In all actuality, the Amendment doesn’t give women access to anything they don’t have at least reasonable access to now.

Ultimately, if you want women to have access to better pregnancy/reproductive health…. Read what we're about to say 50 times if you need to:

*Produce an amendment that secures those rights without the abortion components.*

We'll vote for that without question. We'll happily pay taxes toward it too.

2. “What about caring about children that are already born and need care?”

Supporting kids who are already here is, in no way, mutually exclusive of not supporting abortion. 99% of people we know who are against abortion, do it because they proactively care about children postpartum, too.

If your principal objection to banning abortion is “Well, what about caring for kids once they are already born and need care?”

*Then propose an amendment that secures more rights for children, without the abortion components.*

We'll vote yes for that, and happily pay taxes for that too.

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Thank you for taking the time to read this post. It is simply too important to ignore. We can't always say "God is in control" and move on with our day any longer.

Yes, God is always in control, but that doesn't mean He exercises it.

As St. Augustine once said, we must "Pray as it depends on God, and work as if it depends on us"

So we will do our part while we are expectant that God will somehow make all things right, whether in this life, or in eternity.

We love you all dearly.

- Austin and Rachel Holt

Founders, The Conscious Christian Marriage

info[@]consciouschristianmarriage.com

Episode 29: Coffee with Rachel: The Ultimate Shift for Women

aholtmaster@gmail.com (Austin Holt) — Thu, 10 Oct 2024 18:50:34 GMT

The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast

Episode 29: Coffee with Rachel: The Ultimate Shift for Women

Join hosts Austin and Rachel Holt in this heartfelt birthday edition of The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast . In this episode, Austin interviews Rachel about one of her greatest passions—helping women step into their God-given identity as masterpieces. Learn how to embrace self-love, growth, and healing in your marriage and relationships through God’s love.

Key highlights:

Why loving yourself the way God loves you is essential for growth.
How unhealed trauma and past experiences impact self-love.
The power of vulnerability and its role in authentic relationships.
A 30-day challenge to radically shift your self-perception and marriage.

Whether you’re on the journey of growth or just starting, this episode provides actionable steps that will transform how you view yourself and the relationships around you.

Listen now and take the first step in creating the life and marriage you desire.

Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe, and become part of this movement to create stronger, more conscious Christian marriages!

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Thanks for watching or listening! We appreciate you.

- Austin and Rachel Holt

Founders, The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast

Join other driven, high-impact couples by visiting: https://www.consciouschristianmarriage.com/coaching-program

Episode 28: 13 One-Liners to Take Your Marriage Levels Above Levels

aholtmaster@gmail.com (Austin Holt) — Thu, 03 Oct 2024 18:47:14 GMT

The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast

Episode 28: 13 One-Liners to Take Your Marriage Levels Above Levels

In this special anniversary episode of The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast , hosts Austin and Rachel Holt celebrate their 13th wedding anniversary by sharing 13 powerful one-liner marriage tips designed to help Christian couples elevate their relationship to new heights. These simple yet impactful pieces of advice, rooted in Biblical wisdom, focus on strengthening connection, love, and understanding in marriage.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

How to embrace a growth mindset in your marriage.
Why great responsibility brings great power in relationships.
The importance of focusing on love to cast out fear.
Practical tips for prioritizing God, marriage, and everything else in life.

Stay tuned until the end of the episode for an actionable freebie that will help you integrate these oneliners into your daily life!

Listen now and take the first step in creating the life and marriage you desire.

Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe, and become part of this movement to create stronger, more conscious Christian marriages!

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Thanks for watching or listening! We appreciate you.

- Austin and Rachel Holt

Founders, The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast

Join other driven, high-impact couples by visiting: https://www.consciouschristianmarriage.com/coaching-program

Episode 27: The 3 Keys to Becoming an Irresistible Wife

aholtmaster@gmail.com (Austin Holt) — Thu, 26 Sep 2024 18:43:40 GMT

The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast

Episode 27: The 3 Keys to Becoming an Irresistible Wife

In this empowering episode of The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast , Rachel and Austin Holt dive into what makes a wife truly irresistible in the eyes of her husband. With practical insights and Biblical wisdom, this episode highlights three essential qualities wives can embrace to strengthen their connection, deepen their marriage, and nurture love in the home.

Key discussion points include:

Femininity: Embracing the natural feminine role within the marriage and the power of complementing your husband’s masculinity.
Being a Place of Peace: Creating a calm and peaceful environment at home, where your husband feels understood and supported.
Security: How self-confidence and emotional security make a wife more attractive and deepen intimacy within the relationship.

Don’t miss the three actionable steps shared at the end, designed to help wives apply these principles in their daily lives. Whether you’re a newlywed or have been married for years, this episode provides valuable advice for building a thriving Christian marriage.

Listen now and take the first step in creating the life and marriage you desire.

Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe, and become part of this movement to create stronger, more conscious Christian marriages!

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Thanks for watching or listening! We appreciate you.

- Austin and Rachel Holt

Founders, The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast

Join other driven, high-impact couples by visiting: https://www.consciouschristianmarriage.com/coaching-program

Episode 26: The 3 Keys to Becoming an Irresistible Husband

aholtmaster@gmail.com (Austin Holt) — Thu, 12 Sep 2024 18:39:01 GMT

The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast
Episode 26: The 3 Keys to Becoming an Irresistible Husband

In this episode of The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast , hosts Austin and Rachel Holt dive deep into the three essential keys every husband can embrace to become irresistible to his wife. If your marriage is not where you want it to be, don’t worry – this episode will help you reclaim your leadership role in the relationship and strengthen your connection with your spouse.

Key topics include:

Leadership: Understanding how to lead with integrity, take full responsibility, and step into your God-given role as a husband.
Presence: How to be fully engaged, physically, mentally, and emotionally, in your marriage and with your family.
Empathy: The importance of understanding your wife's emotions, validating her feelings, and building deep emotional intimacy.

Whether you’re a husband looking to improve your marriage or a wife hoping to better communicate your needs, this episode provides powerful insights to elevate your relationship. Austin and Rachel also share actionable steps to implement these principles right away, helping you transform your marriage through intentional leadership, presence, and empathy.

Listen now and take the first step in creating the life and marriage you desire.

Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe, and become part of this movement to create stronger, more conscious Christian marriages!

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Thanks for watching or listening! We appreciate you.

- Austin and Rachel Holt

Founders, The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast

Join other driven, high-impact couples by visiting: https://www.consciouschristianmarriage.com/coaching-program

Episode 25: Did You Fall Off the Horse Again? Re-Committing to Excellence in Your Marriage

aholtmaster@gmail.com (Austin Holt) — Fri, 30 Aug 2024 18:25:39 GMT

The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast - Episode 25: Did You Fall Off the Horse Again? Re-Committing to Excellence in Your Marriage

In this episode of The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast , hosts Austin and Rachel Holt dive into the powerful concept of recommitment in marriage. If you or your spouse have ever struggled with keeping a commitment or felt like you've let each other or your marriage down, this episode is for you! Learn how the idea that “commitment is recommitment” can reshape your relationship and lead to deeper growth and intimacy with your spouse, yourself, and God.

Austin and Rachel tackle key topics such as:

Understanding the difference between conscious and unconscious commitments.
How self-love and grace can help you and your spouse heal after breaking a commitment.
The importance of auditing your circle to surround yourself with supportive, growth-minded people.
How guilt and shame impact commitment and ways to overcome these emotions with a healthy perspective.
Practical steps to recommit to your marriage, your spouse, and your relationship with God daily.

Whether you've broken a commitment in the past or want to strengthen your marriage, this episode provides actionable insights to help you grow. Don’t miss their nonprofit shoutout for Mercy Ships and the takeaway action at the end of the episode that will empower you to recommit in your life and marriage.

Listen now and take the first step in creating the life and marriage you desire.

Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe, and become part of this movement to create stronger, more conscious Christian marriages!

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Thanks for watching or listening! We appreciate you.

- Austin and Rachel Holt

Founders, The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast

Join other driven, high-impact couples by visiting: https://www.consciouschristianmarriage.com/coaching-program

Episode 24: 3 Reasons Why Focusing on the SELF is Essential to Being Led by the SPIRIT

aholtmaster@gmail.com (Austin Holt) — Thu, 15 Aug 2024 18:21:31 GMT

The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast - Episode 24: 3 Reasons Why Focusing on the SELF is Essential to Being Led by the SPIRIT

In this episode of The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast, hosts Austin and Rachel Holt explore a powerful topic that challenges the common belief in Christian circles: Is focusing on the self truly selfish, or is it essential to being led by the Spirit? Discover the three compelling reasons why understanding yourself is a key part of being Spirit-led and how it can improve your relationship with God, your spouse, and those around you.

Austin and Rachel discuss how self-awareness, self-control, and self-love are biblical principles that can transform your marriage and Christian walk. They dive deep into common misconceptions around selfishness and explain how knowing the self is crucial for loving others well and fulfilling God’s will in your life.

Key Points Covered:

The importance of self-awareness for self-control (Galatians 5:22-23)
How focusing on yourself can help you love God and others better (Matthew 7:3-5)
Why knowing your blocks and triggers can lead you to deeper faith and connection with the Holy Spirit
Practical ways to make space for introspection and personal growth within your marriage and faith journey

Listen now and take the first step in creating the life and marriage you desire.

Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe, and become part of this movement to create stronger, more conscious Christian marriages!

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Thanks for watching or listening! We appreciate you.

- Austin and Rachel Holt

Founders, The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast

Join other driven, high-impact couples by visiting: https://www.consciouschristianmarriage.com/coaching-program

Episode 23: The Mindset that will 180 your marriage before the end of this episode.

aholtmaster@gmail.com (Austin Holt) — Thu, 08 Aug 2024 18:04:02 GMT

The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast - Episode 23: The Mindset that will 180 your marriage before the end of this episode.

In this heartfelt episode, Austin and Rachel Holt discuss the importance of making your marriage a lifestyle, not just an afterthought. Recorded in their new temporary studio, the Holts tackle one of the most frequent questions they receive: How do you find time and energy to invest in your marriage amidst life’s busyness? They share their personal journey, from living in a fifth-wheel camper with four kids to reprioritizing everything to ensure their marriage remains at the heart of their lives.

Discover how your marriage can be a powerful source of joy, connection, and blessings when you make it a lifestyle. From setting boundaries, adjusting your schedule, and investing time, Austin and Rachel reveal practical tips and faith-centered insights that will inspire you to transform your relationship.

Topics Covered:

Prioritizing marriage in a fast-paced world
How to make your marriage a lifestyle
Biblical foundations for nurturing a Christ-centered marriage
The importance of setting boundaries and saying “no” to external pressures
Personal experiences and drastic steps to create a thriving marriage
Aligning your family’s values to reflect your marriage’s importance

Listen now and take the first step in creating the life and marriage you desire.

Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe, and become part of this movement to create stronger, more conscious Christian marriages!

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Thanks for watching or listening! We appreciate you.

- Austin and Rachel Holt

Founders, The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast

Join other driven, high-impact couples by visiting: https://www.consciouschristianmarriage.com/coaching-program

Episode 22: Encounter God's Favor: 3 Scriptures for Every Marriage

aholtmaster@gmail.com (Austin Holt) — Thu, 25 Jul 2024 18:00:21 GMT

The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast
Episode 22: Encounter God's Favor: 3 Scriptures for Every Marriage

In this enlightening episode, Austin and Rachel Holt dive into the biblical principles of righteousness, obedience, and God's favor. Drawing from scripture, they explore how pursuing righteousness, wisdom, and understanding can lead to blessings, prosperity, and honor in your life and marriage. If you've ever wondered how to align yourself with God's plan and experience His abundance, this episode will provide you with actionable insights and spiritual guidance.

Key scriptures discussed include:

Proverbs 24:3-4: Building your life and marriage through wisdom and understanding
Proverbs 21:21: How pursuing righteousness leads to life, prosperity, and honor
Deuteronomy 28: The powerful blessings that follow full obedience to God

You'll also learn how righteousness, even in pursuit, can transform your relationship with God, elevate your marriage, and help you live out your faith with excellence.

Topics Covered:

The role of wisdom, knowledge, and understanding in building a strong marriage
The connection between righteousness and God's favor
Practical steps to fully submit every area of your life to God

Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe, and become part of this movement to create stronger, more conscious Christian marriages!

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Thanks for watching or listening! We appreciate you.

- Austin and Rachel Holt

Founders, The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast

Join other driven, high-impact couples by visiting: https://www.consciouschristianmarriage.com/coaching-program

Episode 21: Jesus Was Emotional Too: The Bible's Take on Your Feelings

aholtmaster@gmail.com (Austin Holt) — Thu, 18 Jul 2024 17:56:38 GMT

The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast
Episode 21: Jesus Was Emotional Too: The Bible's Take on Your Feelings

In this eye-opening episode, Austin and Rachel Holt debunk a common misconception that feelings and God’s guidance cannot coexist. Many have heard, "Don’t trust your emotions; just listen to the Holy Spirit." But what if God speaks through both? Tune in as the Holts explore the powerful connection between emotions, desires, and God’s voice, showing that ignoring emotions can actually distance us from the Holy Spirit.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

Why emotions and God's voice aren't mutually exclusive
The biblical foundation for embracing your emotions (Ephesians 4:26, Proverbs 4:23)
How understanding your emotions can strengthen your marriage and spiritual life
The cognitive-behavioral model that explains how trauma, beliefs, and emotions affect your actions
Practical steps to regulate emotions and seek God through them

Bonus: Discover real-life examples of emotional breakthroughs and how they have transformed lives and marriages. Plus, don't miss today's nonprofit shoutout to While We're Waiting, a ministry supporting grieving parents.

Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe, and become part of this movement to create stronger, more conscious Christian marriages!

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Thanks for watching or listening! We appreciate you.

- Austin and Rachel Holt

Founders, The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast

Join other driven, high-impact couples by visiting: https://www.consciouschristianmarriage.com/coaching-program

Episode 20: A Lack of Boundaries Will Destroy Your Marriage: Everything You Need to Know!

aholtmaster@gmail.com (Austin Holt) — Thu, 11 Jul 2024 17:49:29 GMT

The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast - Episode 20: A Lack of Boundaries Will Destroy Your Marriage: Everything You Need to Know!

In this insightful episode, hosts Austin and Rachel Holt continue their series on debunking five common mutual exclusives in marriage and life. This time, they tackle the belief that you cannot set boundaries and love someone unconditionally at the same time. Learn why setting healthy boundaries can actually strengthen love and promote deeper, more authentic relationships. Whether in marriage, friendships, or family dynamics, understanding how to honor both yourself and others through boundaries is key to living the abundant life God intends for you.

Tune in as Austin and Rachel discuss:

Why boundaries aren't a sign of withholding love, but a sign of healthy love
How to set boundaries that honor both you and the people in your life
Practical tips for creating win-win agreements in your relationships
Real-life examples from their marriage and coaching experiences
Biblical insights, including a key takeaway from Proverbs 4:23 ("Above all else, guard your heart...")

If you're ready to experience more peace, clarity, and connection in your relationships, this episode is for you!

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Listen now and take the first step in creating the life and marriage you desire.

Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe, and become part of this movement to create stronger, more conscious Christian marriages!

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Thanks for watching or listening! We appreciate you.

- Austin and Rachel Holt

Founders, The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast

Join other driven, high-impact couples by visiting: https://www.consciouschristianmarriage.com/coaching-program

Episode 19: Coffee with Rachel

aholtmaster@gmail.com (Austin Holt) — Sat, 06 Jul 2024 17:42:16 GMT

The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast
Episode 19: Coffee with Rachel

In this insightful episode of The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast , Rachel Holt dives deep into topics that are essential for women who are striving to level up their marriages and faith. She explores the idea of radical responsibility, encouraging women to embrace their personal power by taking ownership of their experiences and making necessary changes without falling into the victim mindset. Rachel also addresses the often misunderstood biblical concept of submission in marriage, shedding light on how couples can create healthy, balanced relationships by honoring their natural roles without falling into toxic or patriarchal traps.

Listeners will learn:

Radical Responsibility: How owning your life circumstances can lead to real growth and empowerment.
Healthy Masculine and Feminine Dynamics: How to restore balance in marriage roles for a deeper connection.
The Power of Community: The importance of surrounding yourself with the right people to support your growth.
Healing from Trauma: Practical steps and encouragement for women healing from past trauma or unhealthy relationships.

Rachel also offers practical tools to shift out of negative patterns, as well as how to establish thriving relationships and live in alignment with God's calling for your life. If you're ready to experience growth in your faith, marriage, and life, this episode will guide you on that journey!

Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe, and become part of this movement to create stronger, more conscious Christian marriages!

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Thanks for watching or listening! We appreciate you.

- Austin and Rachel Holt

Founders, The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast

Join other driven, high-impact couples by visiting: https://www.consciouschristianmarriage.com/coaching-program

Episode 18: Coffee with Austin: Discover His Secrets & Most Common Coaching Advice

aholtmaster@gmail.com (Austin Holt) — Thu, 20 Jun 2024 01:25:51 GMT

The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast - Episode 18: Coffee with Austin: Discover His Secrets & Most Common Coaching Advice

In this special episode of The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast , Rachel Holt interviews her husband, Austin Holt, for a heartfelt conversation where listeners get to know him on a deeper level. Austin shares personal insights on faith, identity, and the importance of integrity in both life and marriage. He discusses how our greatest weaknesses can often be a pivot toward our most powerful strengths and how living in alignment with our God-given identity leads to personal fulfillment and success.

Listeners will learn:

The Power of Identity: How aligning your actions with your values and identity fosters growth and fulfillment.
Integrity in Action: Why being impeccable with your word is crucial for personal and relational success.
Practical Shifts for Men: Strategies men can implement to become better husbands, fathers, and leaders.
Austin’s Personal Journey: From hobbies to spiritual goals, Austin shares what fuels his passion for life, business, and his mission as a man of God.

Tune in to this inspiring episode where faith meets everyday life, offering practical advice to deepen your connection with God, your spouse, and your purpose.

Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe, and become part of this movement to create stronger, more conscious Christian marriages!

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Thanks for watching or listening! We appreciate you.

- Austin and Rachel Holt

Founders, The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast

Join other driven, high-impact couples by visiting: https://www.consciouschristianmarriage.com/coaching-program

Episode 17: Answering 3 Listener Submitted Questions

aholtmaster@gmail.com (Austin Holt) — Thu, 13 Jun 2024 01:22:02 GMT

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Episode 17: Answering 3 Listener Submitted Questions

In this episode of The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast, hosts Austin and Rachel Holt tackle three essential listener-submitted questions on fostering deeper connection and communication in marriage. They dive into practical strategies for encouraging your spouse to share more, explore whether anxiety medication is "okay" within a Christian framework, and provide guidance on discerning what to share or withhold in a marriage.

Key highlights include:

How to Encourage Your Spouse to Share More: Tips for creating a safe, welcoming space for open communication.
Mental Health and Medication: Navigating the balance between faith, anxiety, and when it’s appropriate to consider medication.
Knowing What to Share in Marriage: How to decide what to share with your spouse to maintain connection and trust without oversharing.

The episode also features an engaging challenge for couples to strengthen their communication and offers actionable steps for implementing these principles. Additionally, Austin and Rachel spotlight their nonprofit shoutout to Mother’s Refuge, an organization supporting young mothers in need.

Whether you’re looking to enhance your communication or seeking clarity on tough issues, this episode offers insightful advice to foster a thriving, Christ-centered marriage.

Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe, and become part of this movement to create stronger, more conscious Christian marriages!

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Thanks for watching or listening! We appreciate you.

- Austin and Rachel Holt

Founders, The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast

Join other driven, high-impact couples by visiting: https://www.consciouschristianmarriage.com/coaching-program

Episode 16: How to Rely on God and Also Get to Work.

aholtmaster@gmail.com (Austin Holt) — Thu, 23 May 2024 01:12:24 GMT

The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast

Episode 16: How to Rely on God and Also Get to Work.

In episode 16 of The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast , hosts Austin and Rachel Holt explore the concept of balancing faith in God with personal responsibility. They challenge the mutual exclusive mindset that often leads Christians to believe they should "wait on God" without taking personal action. Using biblical examples and practical life lessons, this episode focuses on how Christians can both rely on God and take active steps toward achieving their goals.

Through personal stories and biblical teachings, Rachel and Austin emphasize how God often places desires in our hearts as the first step in His divine intervention. They reveal how action and reliance on God's intervention can coexist to create breakthroughs in marriage, faith, health, and personal growth. This episode helps listeners understand that prayer is crucial, but so is responding to God's call to take action.

Key Topics Covered:

Why effort and God's divine intervention are not mutually exclusive.
Biblical examples of taking action while relying on God.
Understanding how God places desires in our hearts as a form of divine intervention.
Practical advice for blending faith and action to create lasting change.

Nonprofit Shoutout: This episode highlights Operation Underground Railroad, a nonprofit dedicated to rescuing victims of human trafficking. Listeners are encouraged to donate and help fight against this global issue.

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- Austin and Rachel Holt

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Episode 15: Christians don't need counseling?

aholtmaster@gmail.com (Austin Holt) — Thu, 16 May 2024 01:03:24 GMT

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Episode 15: Christians don't need counseling?

In episode 15 of The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast, hosts Rachel and Austin Holt continue their powerful series debunking five mutual exclusives that often limit our faith and marriages. In this insightful discussion, they tackle the misconception that Christians must choose between counseling and relying on God as the "Great Counselor." They reveal how seeking help from both a counselor and God can coexist to enrich your spiritual and emotional well-being.

Drawing from biblical teachings and personal stories, this episode explores why relying solely on God for emotional or mental health may limit the healing that trained counselors—also anointed by God—can offer. Rachel and Austin share examples of how embracing both divine guidance and professional help creates deeper freedom, growth, and resilience in marriage and life.

Key Topics Covered:

Why faith in God and professional counseling are not mutually exclusive.
Biblical examples of seeking counsel from others within the body of Christ.
Personal stories of healing through combining faith and therapy.
Encouragement for Christians to seek counseling without feeling shame or doubt in their faith.

If you or someone you know struggles with the pressures of marriage, faith, or mental health, this episode provides hope, clarity, and actionable steps toward healing.

Nonprofit Shoutout: In this episode, Rachel and Austin highlight Young Faith in Christ, a mentoring program for youth. Consider donating to support this impactful ministry.

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Episode 14: Debunking 5 Mutual Exclusives That May Be Limiting Your Faith and Marriage.

aholtmaster@gmail.com (Austin Holt) — Thu, 09 May 2024 00:56:42 GMT

The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast - Episode 14: Debunking 5 Mutual Exclusives That May Be Limiting Your Faith and Marriage.

In this enlightening episode of the Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast, hosts Austin and Rachel dive into a transformative series, uncovering and debunking five mutual exclusives that may be hindering your faith journey and marriage. Through practical wisdom and relatable examples, they explore common misconceptions that create unnecessary divides between faith, counseling, effort, emotions, and boundaries. You’ll learn how to embrace both God’s divine intervention and personal responsibility, allowing you to grow spiritually while fostering a healthier, more loving marriage.

Discover how setting healthy boundaries, understanding your emotions, and becoming more self-aware can deepen your relationship with God and your spouse. With a biblical perspective and actionable insights, this episode offers empowering strategies to break free from limiting beliefs.

Join us as we explore faith in God, counseling, effort, divine intervention, emotions, and boundaries to help you live with greater clarity, confidence, and connection.

Key topics:

Faith and counseling coexist
Effort and God's intervention work together
Setting boundaries in love
Emotions as tools for spiritual growth
Self-awareness and its role in Christian living

Nonprofit Shoutout: This episode highlights the Tim Tebow Foundation and its fight against human trafficking. Support their mission at TimTebowFoundation.org .

Listen now and comment with your thoughts on the mutual exclusive that resonates with you the most!

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- Austin and Rachel Holt

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Episode 13: Winning in the Bedroom

aholtmaster@gmail.com (Austin Holt) — Thu, 02 May 2024 00:47:49 GMT

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Episode 13: Winning in the Bedroom

In this episode of the Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast, Rachel and Austin Holt address a common question from couples: “How can we have a more connected sex life when life seems to be getting in the way?” They dive into the factors that can impact your intimacy and provide actionable steps to reignite your connection in the bedroom.

Rachel and Austin explore how the busyness of life, emotional and physical health, and even trauma can affect your sex life. They break down practical strategies for setting yourself up for success, unclogging emotional pipelines that may be hindering connection, and creating a space where talking about sex is fun, easy, and safe.

If you’ve found yourself feeling disconnected from your spouse or avoiding intimacy due to the pressures of life, this episode will give you fresh insights on how to rebuild a thriving, Christ-centered sex life.

Action Step: Listen to this episode with your spouse, then download our free “Best Sex Yet” guide to start the conversation about creating your ideal sexual experiences together.

Nonprofit Shoutout: Today's nonprofit shoutout goes to Shelter KC, an incredible organization helping homeless men and women in Kansas City transition from the streets into stable, Christ-centered lives. Visit shelterkc.org to learn more about how you can contribute and feed eight people for just $16.

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- Austin and Rachel Holt

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Episode 12: The Silent Killer in Your Marriage

aholtmaster@gmail.com (Austin Holt) — Thu, 25 Apr 2024 00:38:19 GMT

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Episode 12: The Silent Killer in Your Marriage

In this episode of the Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast, Rachel and Austin Holt dive into an important topic that impacts every marriage—withholding. While the title might sound dramatic, withholding feelings, thoughts, or even small pieces of information from your spouse can slowly erode connection and intimacy, leading to emotional withdrawal and projection.

Rachel and Austin break down what it means to withhold, why we do it, and how it affects your marriage on emotional, mental, and even physical levels. They share personal stories and biblical insights to help you shift from withholding to being forthcoming in your communication.

They also introduce a powerful framework to move from the destructive cycle of withholding, withdrawing, and projecting to the life-giving cycle of being forthcoming, leaning in, and owning your truth.

By the end of the episode, you’ll walk away with practical tools to recognize withholding in your marriage and how to foster deeper connection through honesty and vulnerability.

Action Step: Take a moment to reflect on something you may have been withholding from your spouse, and set aside time to share it with them. It could be a game-changer for your connection.

Scriptures Referenced:

Proverbs 28:13
Psalms 32:3-5

Nonprofit Shoutout: This episode's nonprofit shoutout goes to Team World Vision, specifically highlighting our friend Stephen Losi, who runs marathons worldwide to raise money for children in need. You can learn more about sponsoring a child and supporting their mission by visiting their website.

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- Austin and Rachel Holt

Founders, The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast

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Episode 11: How to be UNOFFENDABLE

aholtmaster@gmail.com (Austin Holt) — Thu, 18 Apr 2024 02:43:20 GMT

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Episode 11: How to be UNOFFENDABLE

In this special episode of the Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast, Rachel Holt is joined by her dear friend and fellow ministry leader, Ashley Hardy. Ashley shares her powerful journey of faith, ministry, and marriage, offering deep insights into the challenges and blessings that come from investing in your marriage as a Christian leader. From moving to Kansas City to help plant Summit Park Church, to navigating personal and spiritual growth, Ashley’s story is both inspiring and relatable for anyone looking to strengthen their marriage and their faith.

Key Topics Covered:

Ashley’s Journey: From being called into ministry at a young age, to helping plant Summit Park Church, and returning to Springfield, Missouri to continue leading and growing in her faith.
The Role of Marriage in Ministry: How Ashley and her husband Jonathan prioritize their marriage amidst the demands of full-time ministry, and the importance of taking care of your household in order to effectively lead others.
Healing Through Marriage: Exploring how marriage and parenting can reveal areas in need of healing and growth, and how conscious Christian practices can help you experience more joy, love, and peace in your life and relationships.
The Power of Radical Responsibility: Ashley shares a personal story about how shifting her perspective on small conflicts has led to deeper connection and joy in her marriage, and how taking responsibility can transform your relationship dynamics.

Nonprofit Highlight: This episode features Lullaby of Hope, a nonprofit that delivers beautifully curated gift baskets to women who have experienced the loss of a baby. Lullaby of Hope is a beacon of hope and comfort, offering love and encouragement during a heartbreaking time. To support their work, visit lullabyofhope.org.

Take Action:

If you're on the fence about investing in your marriage, Ashley's story offers a compelling reason to dive in. Marriage is a vital part of your ministry and legacy, and by strengthening it, you're better equipped to serve God and others.

Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe, and become part of this movement to create stronger, more conscious Christian marriages!

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- Austin and Rachel Holt

Founders, The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast

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Episode 10: The Impact of Going All In On Your Marriage: Interview with Ashley Hardy

aholtmaster@gmail.com (Austin Holt) — Thu, 11 Apr 2024 02:35:42 GMT

The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast - Episode 10: The Impact of Going All In On Your Marriage: Interview with Ashley Hardy

Key Topics Covered:

Ashley’s Journey: From being called into ministry at a young age, to helping plant Summit Park Church, and returning to Springfield, Missouri to continue leading and growing in her faith.
The Role of Marriage in Ministry: How Ashley and her husband Jonathan prioritize their marriage amidst the demands of full-time ministry, and the importance of taking care of your household in order to effectively lead others.
Healing Through Marriage: Exploring how marriage and parenting can reveal areas in need of healing and growth, and how conscious Christian practices can help you experience more joy, love, and peace in your life and relationships.
The Power of Radical Responsibility: Ashley shares a personal story about how shifting her perspective on small conflicts has led to deeper connection and joy in her marriage, and how taking responsibility can transform your relationship dynamics.

Take Action:

If you're on the fence about investing in your marriage, Ashley's story offers a compelling reason to dive in. Marriage is a vital part of your ministry and legacy, and by strengthening it, you're better equipped to serve God and others.

Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe, and become part of this movement to create stronger, more conscious Christian marriages!

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- Austin and Rachel Holt

Founders, The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast

Join other driven, high-impact couples by visiting: https://www.consciouschristianmarriage.com/coaching-program

Episode 9: I know all the church answers, and I'm still anxious. Why?

aholtmaster@gmail.com (Austin Holt) — Thu, 04 Apr 2024 02:23:20 GMT

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Episode 9: I know all the church answers, and I'm still anxious. Why?

In this episode of the Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast, Rachel and Austin Holt explore one of the most common struggles Christians face—anxiety. They dive deep into why many people still feel anxious, even after following all the advice they’ve been given by the church. If you’ve ever asked, “I know all the church answers, but why am I still anxious?” then this episode is for you.

Key Topics Covered:

Understanding Anxiety: What it really is and why it happens.
The Problem with Anxiety in Faith: Why many Christians struggle to resolve their anxiety even after praying and casting their cares on God.
Practical Steps to Healing Anxiety: Two simple but powerful steps rooted in biblical truth and emotional integrity. Learn how to align your identity as a child of God with actionable steps to uncover and heal the true source of your anxiety.
Real-life Examples: Austin and Rachel share personal and coaching examples, offering insight into how conquering anxiety impacts marriage, faith, and personal well-being.

Nonprofit Highlight: This episode features Advice & Aid Pregnancy Center, an organization that supports expectant mothers by providing free pregnancy tests, ultrasounds, baby supplies, parent education, casework, and more. You can support them at adviceandaid.com .

Take Action:

Next time you feel anxious, ask yourself: Am I stepping into who God says I am? and What truth am I avoiding that could be causing this anxiety?
Dive into the full episode for more insight on how to face and conquer anxiety through faith and practical action.

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- Austin and Rachel Holt

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Episode 8: I love my spouse so much – why do they drive me nuts sometimes?

aholtmaster@gmail.com (Austin Holt) — Thu, 28 Mar 2024 02:12:23 GMT

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Episode 8: I love my spouse so much – why do they drive me nuts sometimes?

In this episode of the Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast, Austin and Rachel Holt dive into a central question that many married couples wrestle with: Why do I love my spouse so much, yet sometimes they drive me crazy?

This insightful conversation explores the concept of the Divine Setup, where God intentionally brings couples together to help them heal old wounds and grow closer in faith, intimacy, and partnership. Austin and Rachel discuss how your marriage can reveal unresolved issues from your past and why these triggers are actually opportunities for healing and deeper connection.

Key Topics Covered:

Understanding how God designed marriage to be a pathway for personal and spiritual healing.
Why certain behaviors from your spouse trigger strong emotional reactions, often connected to past experiences.
How healing interpersonal wounds together strengthens your marriage and creates a deeper sense of joy, peace, and intimacy.
Real-life examples from couples they've coached and their own marriage, demonstrating how identifying and healing these areas can lead to breakthroughs in your relationship.
Practical steps for getting curious about the areas in your marriage that need healing and how to have conversations that lead to growth.

Nonprofit Highlight: This episode features Convoy of Hope, a global humanitarian organization that focuses on disaster relief, feeding children, women's empowerment, and rural initiatives. You can support their impactful work at convoyofhope.org .

Take Action:

Reflect on areas in your marriage where you feel stuck or triggered. Consider how these moments might be God’s way of showing you areas for healing and growth.
Get curious, open up conversations with your spouse, and invite God into these areas of your relationship to experience breakthrough and deeper connection.

Tune in to hear how your marriage can be a powerful tool for healing and transformation!

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- Austin and Rachel Holt

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Episode 7: Should My Life & Marriage Revolve Around Church?

aholtmaster@gmail.com (Austin Holt) — Thu, 21 Mar 2024 01:57:26 GMT

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Episode 7: Should My Life & Marriage Revolve Around Church?

In Episode 7 of the Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast, Austin and Rachel Holt tackle a question many Christian couples ask: Should your life and marriage revolve around the church?

In this deep and insightful discussion, the Holts explore the biblical basis for being actively involved in the body of Christ and how doing so impacts both your personal spiritual growth and your marriage. They share personal stories and experiences from their own marriage and ministry, illustrating how centering their lives around serving God and being part of their church has enriched their relationship and deepened their connection to God.

Key Topics Covered:

The importance of viewing church involvement as engagement in the body of Christ and how this shapes our spiritual walk.
The real rewards for serving and participating in the church, both in this life and the age to come.
How spiritual intimacy and shared purpose through church involvement can enhance your marriage, creating excitement and preventing stagnation.
Practical steps to avoid burnout and maintain a healthy balance between serving God and nurturing your marriage.
The episode also includes a powerful testimony about how their church community supported them through one of the most challenging times of their lives, showing the beauty and strength of being part of the body of Christ.

Nonprofit Highlight: In this episode, the Holts shine a light on Mercy Multiplied, a faith-based nonprofit that provides free, life-transforming residential programs for women dealing with various life-controlling issues, such as unplanned pregnancies, trauma, and addiction. Find out how you can support this impactful ministry at mercymultiplied.com .

Take Action:

Join a small group or discipleship group at your local church to build meaningful connections and grow in your faith.
Find an area at your church where you can serve, and experience the fulfillment of using your gifts to help others and glorify God.

Whether you're looking for ways to deepen your spiritual life or strengthen your marriage, this episode provides practical insights and encouragement to live a Christ-centered life.

Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe, and become part of this movement to create stronger, more conscious Christian marriages!

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- Austin and Rachel Holt

Founders, The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast

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Episode 6: Tips to Avoid Church Hurt and Burnout

aholtmaster@gmail.com (Austin Holt) — Thu, 14 Mar 2024 01:36:22 GMT

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Episode 6: Tips to Avoid Church Hurt and Burnout

In Episode 6 of the Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast, Austin and Rachel Holt dive into a common challenge many couples face: preventing burnout while serving at church. Drawing from their extensive experience in church leadership, the Holts offer practical strategies and personal stories to help couples balance serving, home life, and spiritual growth.

Key Topics Covered:

Church and Rest: How being a part of the church is about both service and rest, and why it’s important to balance both.
Regulating Your Commitments: Why it's crucial to take responsibility for your own serving commitments rather than expecting church leaders to manage them for you.
Dopamine Auditing: How the praise and appreciation you receive at church can sometimes overshadow the lack of recognition at home, leading to an imbalance in where you spend your time and energy.
Avoiding Hero, Victim, Villain Mode: The importance of creating win-win situations in serving, rather than overextending yourself, feeling unappreciated, and potentially leaving the church altogether.

The Holts also share their personal journey of serving in the church, including how they’ve navigated seasons of burnout, and what they've learned along the way. They emphasize the power of clear agreements, both in marriage and in church service, to ensure that serving remains joyful and sustainable.

Plus, in this episode, the Holts highlight ReHope KC, a nonprofit that support s human trafficking survivors by providing long-term housing, trauma care, and job skills. Find out how you can support their mission at rehope.org .

Take Action:

Listen in for tips on how to regulate your commitments, communicate openly with your spouse, and serve at church in a way that honors both God and your family.

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- Austin and Rachel Holt

Founders, The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast

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Episode 5: Stories, but Not the Kind You Might Think

aholtmaster@gmail.com (Austin Holt) — Thu, 07 Mar 2024 02:26:11 GMT

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Episode 5: Stories, but Not the Kind You Might Think

In Episode 5 of the Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast, Austin and Rachel Holt dive deep into the hidden stories that can silently influence your marriage. Whether it’s a story you're consciously or unconsciously telling yourself, these narratives can impact the way you feel, behave, and interact with your spouse. The Holts explore how you can identify these stories, take responsibility for them, and bring more transparency and connection into your relationship.

Key Topics Covered:

The Stories We Make Up: How the narratives we create about our spouse’s actions or emotions can cause unnecessary drama and disconnection.
Curiosity Over Judgment: The power of curiosity in helping you overcome negative assumptions and creating deeper intimacy with your partner.
Practical Communication Tools: Learn how to use phrases like, "The story I make up is..." to clarify misunderstandings, share emotions, and avoid unnecessary conflict in your marriage.
Personal Examples from the Holts: Austin and Rachel share examples from their own marriage, including how identifying and communicating the stories they were telling themselves helped them strengthen their connection and parenting.

Plus, in this episode, the Holts highlight God's Bucket Brigade, a Kansas City-based nonprofit that provides essential supplies to the homeless. Learn how you can support their mission and make a difference in your community.

Take Action:

Listen in to gain valuable tools for improving communication in your marriage, fostering transparency, and ending unnecessary drama.

Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe, and become part of this movement to create stronger, more conscious Christian marriages!

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- Austin and Rachel Holt

Founders, The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast

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Episode 4: 3 Questions We Get All the Time

aholtmaster@gmail.com (Austin Holt) — Thu, 29 Feb 2024 02:16:29 GMT

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Episode 4: 3 Questions We Get All the Time

In Episode 4 of the Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast, Austin and Rachel Holt answer three of the most common questions they receive about marriage, family, and working together. This episode is packed with practical insights on how to create a thriving marriage while balancing the demands of work, family, and personal well-being.

Key Topics Covered:

How to Do It All Without Overwhelm: Austin and Rachel share how they manage homeschooling, running multiple businesses, and maintaining their mini-farmstead without burning out. They dive into the importance of clear priorities, scheduling, self-care, and filtering out distractions.
Making Working Together Successful: The Holts talk about how they've managed to build a business together while keeping romance alive. From clear roles to establishing boundaries around work conversations, they reveal the strategies that have helped them thrive as both business partners and spouses.
Growing a Marriage and Teaching Others: They explain how they grew their marriage into a strong foundation that now enables them to coach and teach other couples. Learn why making your marriage a project, budgeting time and resources for it, and staying committed to growth is key to creating a deep and fulfilling relationship.

Plus, they highlight their nonprofit of the week, Gods Said Go—a ministry serving in Latin America—and share how you can support them.

Take Action:

Listen to this episode to discover how you can prioritize your marriage and family, create boundaries for success, and start growing a deeper, more connected relationship.

Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe, and become part of this movement to create stronger, more conscious Christian marriages!

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- Austin and Rachel Holt

Founders, The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast

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Episode 3: The Impactful Shift All Conscious Christian Couples Make

aholtmaster@gmail.com (Austin Holt) — Thu, 22 Feb 2024 01:50:31 GMT

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Episode 3: The Impactful Shift All Conscious Christian Couples Make

Welcome to Episode 3 of the Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast! Today, Austin and Rachel Holt tackle one of the most powerful concepts for a thriving marriage: claiming 100% responsibility and ending the blame game.

In this episode, they explore how taking radical responsibility for everything in your life—without blaming your spouse or circumstances—can create an upward cycle of growth, connection, and joy in your marriage. They dive into the transformative power of shifting from the need to be "right" to a mindset of curiosity and collaboration, showing how this approach leads to more fulfillment, harmony, and flow.

Key Takeaways:

When you claim responsibility, you get what you want faster.
Blame disconnects, but responsibility empowers and inspires.
Sometimes you can only be happy or right—choose connection over being right.

Plus, the Holts share personal stories and client examples to illustrate how taking responsibility can change the course of your marriage. They also offer a simple action step: next time you feel frustrated or disconnected, pause, take a deep breath, and ask yourself, "How can I take responsibility for this?"

Tune in to learn how to step into your God-given power, end drama, and create the marriage you desire.

Also, check out this week’s nonprofit spotlight: Mother’s Refuge, a Kansas City-based organization supporting homeless pregnant women.

Listen now to transform your marriage with the power of responsibility!

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- Austin and Rachel Holt

Founders, The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast

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Episode 2: A Surefire Way to Eliminate Drama in Your Marriage

aholtmaster@gmail.com (Austin Holt) — Thu, 15 Feb 2024 01:33:50 GMT

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Episode 2: A Surefire Way to Eliminate Drama in Your Marriage

Welcome back to the Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast! In Episode 2, Rachel and Austin Holt dive into one of the most foundational concepts for a thriving marriage: expectations vs. agreements. They break down how shifting from unspoken assumptions to clear, win-win agreements can eliminate drama, increase connection, and create peace in your relationship.

Starting with personal appreciations, the Holts show how appreciation plays a vital role in their marriage and daily interactions, offering a simple but transformative habit you can implement too. Throughout the episode, they share real-life examples from their own marriage and the couples they work with to illustrate how agreements eliminate frustration and set you up for success.

Key Takeaways:

You can’t hold your spouse accountable to expectations they never agreed to.
Agreements must be win-win, or they’ll become lose-lose over time.
Agreements eliminate drama and set a foundation for a peaceful, connected marriage.

If you're looking for a way to transform recurring frustrations in your relationship, this episode will give you the tools and insight to get started.

Plus, the Holts highlight an incredible nonprofit, Operation Underground Railroad, working to end sex trafficking worldwide.

Action Step: By the end of this episode, make an agreement with your spouse to run your marriage on agreements, not expectations.

Listen now and start creating a marriage built on mutual respect and clear communication!

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- Austin and Rachel Holt

Founders, The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast

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Episode 1: Is this podcast for you? A Look Into the Conscious Christian Marriage

Thu, 08 Feb 2024 14:16:37 GMT

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episode 1: Is this podcast for you?

In this very first episode of the Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast, hosts Austin and Rachel Holt introduce you to their mission and vision for helping Christian couples build marriages rooted in faith, growth, and excellence. With years of experience working with couples at all stages, they share the personal stories and insights that have shaped their passion for marriage coaching.

In this episode, Austin and Rachel discuss the importance of being growth-minded, transparent, and conscious in your marriage—aligning heart, mind, soul, and strength to honor God and each other. Whether you’re a newlywed or have been married for decades, this podcast is for couples who want to level up their relationship and deepen their connection through Christ-centered principles and practical tools.

Join them as they explore how to tackle common challenges, how faith intersects with personal growth, and how to thrive in every area of life, from marriage to parenting to building a lasting legacy. Get ready for some honest, insightful, and life-changing conversations!

Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe, and become part of this movement to create stronger, more conscious Christian marriages!

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- Austin and Rachel Holt

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Stephen + Alexis Losey: A Conscious Christian Marriage Story

aholtmaster@gmail.com (Austin Holt) — Thu, 31 Aug 2023 13:55:27 GMT

philanthropists, business owners, Parents of 2, faith-focused and marriage centric

“I just feel so free in our marriage now; I feel supported in that if I have something going on that I’m struggling with, I have a real partner that’s going to help me through that, and that we’re going to come out on the other side better than we ever could have imagined.”

Meet this high performance couple, Stephen and Alexis Losey.

Stephen and Alexis have 2 wonderful kids, own two businesses(can you guess which one is a famous horse trainer??), are very involved with their local Church, enjoy time on their farm, running marathons for World Vision , and so much more. They focus deeply on their marriage because know they their marriage is their first and most important ministry.

They are members of our Marriage Coaching Membership Program and have attended multiple in-person events with us as well.

Enjoy this short video to learn a little bit more about them, their marriage and what God is doing in and through their lives!

Want to join them? Learn more here.

Thanks for reading!

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Jared + Mallory Robinson: A Conscious Christian Marriage Story

aholtmaster@gmail.com (Austin Holt) — Thu, 31 Aug 2023 13:47:03 GMT

high-impact professionals, Parents of 3, active volunteers and marriage-focused

“What used to be “arguments” that would blow up and become long, drawn out, mad-at-each-other events, have really turned into these conversations we have where we get to understand the other person’s perspective, and instead of getting angry at them, really honoring them for bringing that forward and opening themselves up.”

Meet this high-impact couple, Jared and Mallory Robinson.

Jared and Mallory have (3) amazing kids, enjoy meaningful careers, are very involved with their local Church, enjoy fitness, the Kansas City Chiefs, and so much more. They also make their marriage a high priority and refuse to believe that God has anything less than the best for their lives.

They are members of our Marriage Coaching Membership Program and have attended multiple in-person events with us as well.

Enjoy this short video to learn a little bit more about them, their marriage and what God is doing in and through their lives!

Want to join them? Learn more here.

Thanks for reading!

Austin & Rachel Holt

The Conscious Christian Marriage

info@consciouschristianmarriage.com

Kodie + Kenzie Burns: A Conscious Christian Marriage Story

aholtmaster@gmail.com (Austin Holt) — Thu, 31 Aug 2023 13:39:28 GMT

busines Owners, Parents, farm life, ministry leaders and leveling up their marriage daily

“Before we got started with Conscious Christian Marriage, we were just kind of floating around, you know, we were good, but things weren’t great, and so when we found Conscious Christian Marriage it was very enlightening and a whole new perspective, and opened up so many doors for our marriage..”

Meet this incredible couple, Kodie and Kenzie Burns.

Kodie and Kenzie have a sweet little daughter, run an incredible business together, are very involved with their local Church, enjoy large gardens, raising chickens and focusing on their marriage daily, leveraging it to create an incredible life together.

They are members of our Marriage Coaching Membership Program and have attended multiple in-person events with us as well.

Enjoy this short video to learn a little bit more about them, their marriage and why they truly believe that the focus they put into their marriage is one way they worship God.

Want to join them? Learn more here.

Thanks for reading!

Austin & Rachel Holt

The Conscious Christian Marriage

info@consciouschristianmarriage.com

Tony + Kelly Olson: A Conscious Christian Marriage Story

aholtmaster@gmail.com (Austin Holt) — Thu, 31 Aug 2023 13:29:26 GMT

Multiple businesses, (3) busy boys, love for god and an amazing focus on marriage

“Austin and Rachel have a way of cutting a little deep, and it’s an amazing thing when you open up to each other. Conscious Christian Marriage really gave me the tools, armed me with what we needed to connect, and inspires me to lead our family closer to God. And so that’s brought us closer to each other, and it’s brought us closer to God for sure, and it’s impacted our marriage in such a positive way. ”

Meet this incredible couple, Tony and Kelly Olson.

Tony and Kelly have 3 busy boys, run multiple businesses, are involved with their local Church and Community, into fitness...... AND they set aside time, money and energy to invest in their marriage.

They are members of our Marriage Coaching Membership Program and have attended multiple in-person events with us as well.

Enjoy this short video to learn a little bit more about them, their marriage and why going all in on leveling up their marriage was a huge "heck yes" for them.

Want to join them? Learn more here.

Thanks for reading!

Austin & Rachel Holt

The Conscious Christian Marriage

info@consciouschristianmarriage.com

The Power of Curiosity

aholtmaster@gmail.com (Austin Holt) — Tue, 15 Aug 2023 12:00:49 GMT

how curiosity can shift everything

When we label intent, we judge our spouse, and ultimately ourself.

What if instead of our label, we got curious?

When we get curious, we give our spouse the benefit of the doubt, and then our label becomes an opportunity to be compassionate and empathetic.

This applies in our marriages and interactions with anyone!

Rude becomes, “I wonder if they are having a bad day.”

Hateful becomes "I wonder if they are hurt".

Stupid becomes "I wonder if they are misinformed".

Inconsiderate becomes "I wonder if they are desperate/unaware".

Insane becomes "I wonder if they are confused".

Terrible becomes "I wonder if they are scared".

We create our own drama when we label the behaviors of others and make up stories about what they mean. Sure, inherently, there is "good/helpful" and "bad/harmful" behavior to a degree, but most of our frustration with others comes from within US, not from within them. Their behavior is activating something in us, or a part of us, that we also have an issue labeling with love. (Read that again and again until you understand it fully.)

Example: (Austin here!) For me, as soon as I learned to appreciate myself, give myself grace and forgive those who once shamed me, I stopped calling other guys "cocky" behind their backs. I learned to extend them the same grace, positive intent and respect I had learned to give myself.

One of the most powerful pivots I've ever learned in my life is to stop and become curious anytime I start to feel anything other than bliss, when I start to judge, when I start to blame and when I label the actions of others.

Because of this, we have virtually no drama in our life. No, we are not making this up! We aren’t perfect, but this is something we put into practice daily, and it's helped us find substantial peace, grace for others, grace for ourselves, and a whole lot less drama in our lives.

So next time you jump to judge, instead, stop and get curious. This gift you will give yourself and other is much greater than you likely realize in this moment.

With love and joy,

Austin & Rachel

Thrive for Life Red Carpet Photos

aholtmaster@gmail.com (Austin Holt) — Wed, 02 Aug 2023 04:00:24 GMT

A look into night 1 of our 3 day retreat

Night 1 of Thrive for Life not only includes many fun surprises, along with our Session 1 training, but each couple walks the red carpet before attending our private dining experience. Enjoy these photos from our July 2023 Thrive for Life Retreat red carpet.

Thrive for Life 2023 Recap

aholtmaster@gmail.com (Austin Holt) — Wed, 02 Aug 2023 03:14:14 GMT

A peek into the weekend that forever impacts legacys

This July Austin and Rachel hosted yet another Thrive for Life Marriage retreat for high impact couples to gain new tools and techniques, grow as leaders, go deep, and connect on a level most couples never experience in their lifetime.

Every couple that attends Thrive leaves with a completely new outlook on their marriage, even if their outlook was incredible before. What Austin and Rachel teach at this retreat they often refer to as "being unplugged from the matrix". Once couples know what they know, they realize the secrets to success in life and marriage aren't as "hard" as they thought and building their legacy together can be completely drama free and filled with fun and joy.

Austin and Rachel delight in not only teaching impactful concepts through somatic learning, but they love to surprise and bless all of their couples. Much of which is not pictured so as to not spoil any surprises, however, we hope you enjoy checking out a few photos from this incredible weekend. To see the couples Red Carpet Photos , visit this blog post here .

Many couples from the Conscious Christian Marriage Coaching program attended, including a couple from the East Coast. One of the major benefits experienced through this event is leaving with newfound friends and incredible bonds with other high integrity christian couples. Learning and growing through everything at Thrive with others who are at the same level is such a gift you won't know how great until you've attended a Thrive for Life for yourself.

A note from Austin and Rachel:

All our 2023 Thrive for Life couples,

You are world changers. Your fearless commitment to never settling for good or even great in your marriage is inspiring. Spending this weekend with you will always be one of the greatest highlights of our lives. We love you all and hope you know that we are your #1 fans as you go into all the world and lead and love well through the influence of your marriage. Your impact is great and we honor you.

Until next time,

Austin and Rachel

A Little Backstory

aholtmaster@gmail.com (Austin Holt) — Sat, 29 Jul 2023 11:46:32 GMT

A little peek into the beginning

When we first got married, we made a commitment that we wouldn’t wait for our marriage to suffer before investing in it. So much so that we “studied” marriage even before getting married.

At the time, we thought we were being proactive. We read books, prayed hard, and went through a little pre-marital counseling too, where we were told to talk about budgets, expectations in sex and to formulate a parenting plan.

Fast forward a few years down the road, and we came to head with a very real situation:

Though very in love, our deepest hurts, unhealed wounds and unconscious patterns were being thrown around like a volleyball. We began to wonder why our marriage seemed to bring all of these things to the surface…and with ease. The tools we had previously sought out seemed (and were!) completely ineffective in the face of the real conflict we found ourselves in and the hurt that kept surfacing. So we kept digging. We dug deeper. We sought out the worlds best in relationship psychology and neuroscience and we stopped at nothing to learn, heal and grow.

Everything we learned, we tried and tested in our own marriage first. There is nothing we teach or lead our couples in that we haven’t done first, applied, and also seen incredible results in. All of this, we put into the Conscious Christian Marriage because we know that it WORKS and truly transforms day to day life and maximizes our impact. We have seen it first hand!

We created CCM because there was nothing else in the world like it; we know this because we looked for it. We looked for a resource that would practically and effectively equip couples in deep connection, healing, co-creativity, personal power, responsibility in their faith and the fulfillment of their calling from God. We didn’t find it, so we dove in head first and started building.

All this to say, we felt strongly called to create a resource based on the values of our Faith as well as scientifically supported psychology and neuroscience. God created them both to work hand in hand. "Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength." (Mark 12:30)

We believe that God’s unique design of our psyche has equipped us to find healing in our conflict. Because of this, we believe a miracle has already been performed in every single person’s heart. This is the powerful convergence of God’s divinity and goodness and the intricate inner-workings of our heart, mind, soul and strength.

Our passion is to support and equip highly driven Christian couples who desire a true partnership, where they can be authentic, creative, supported and appreciated - all the time - thus maximizing their impact to fulfill the calling God has placed on their lives.

We help couples understand the real reasons they attracted each other – things like mutual healing, co-creativity and ever-expanding joy.

We teach couples how to end withholding for good, and melt away shame and fear they’ve carried since childhood.

We equip couples to increase the value they share in each other through appreciation and gratitude - no matter how GOOD they already experience each other!

We teach couples how to become curious instead of adrenaline-fueled when it comes to navigating learning opportunities (what you may still refer to as "conflict").

We believe that no matter how GOOD a marriage is, God is calling it upward and onward and if we aren't growing, we are stagnant and dying. So we are passionate in helping incredible, high integrity couples take their wonderful marriages to the next level - and levels above levels!

"The Conscious Christian Marriage Coaching program really took our relationship to the next level and I couldn’t imagine doing life now without having the tools that we have." - Stephen L.

"Joining is one of the best decisions we’ve made in our lives, and we’ll continue to be with the Conscious Christian Marriage for as long as it’s around." - Kodie B.

To continually take your marriage, joy, and success to the next level, join our coaching program here .

See you there,

Austin & Rachel

Our (current) Top 10 Books on Marriage

aholtmaster@gmail.com (Austin Holt) — Wed, 26 Jul 2023 19:07:05 GMT

Our Top 10 Books That Will Upgrade Your Marriage…

Hey there Marriage Rockstar! Enjoy some of our favorite books that will help you upgrade your marriage. Sure, not ALL of these are “marriage books” but they are books that will either help you upgrade your marriage, or help you upgrade yourself so your marriage can thrive. Enjoy.

-Austin & Rachel

#1: The Circle Maker
By: Mark Batterson

If you believe in the power of prayer, this book will fundamentally shift your prayer life, and you will see changes in your marriage and life. Fun Fact: The cover of our “Connection Cards” is an homage to this book, to Mark and to Honi.

This book changed our marriage and every other aspect of our lives.

Purchase this book on Amazon here.

#2: Lasting Love
By: Drs. Gay and Kathlyn Hendricks

Not only were we mentored by Gay and Katie, this book they wrote, now a classic, 100% changed our marriage before we ever became Hendricks Institute certified relationship and transformation coaches. Gay and Katie had some of the best marriage advice on the market, long before the market really even existed.

Purchase this book on Amazon here.

#3: The Great Sex Rescue
By: Sheila Wray Gregoire

Looking for an incredible book on understanding God’s true design for sex in the context of Christian Couples? This book will unshackle you from beliefs that have more than likely hindered your sexual connection in ways you never knew.

Purchase this book on Amazon here.

#4: Getting the Love You Want
By: Dr. Harville Hendrix

Dr. Hendrix founded “IMAGO Therapy” which we consider one of the most transformational forms of work in our space. We use techniques from IMAGO that we have watched changes countless lives and marriages. In this book, you will deep dive some of the foundational concepts around how your childhood, and specifically, childhood relationships, come into play in your present day marriage.

Purchase this book on Amazon here.

#5: The 7 Principles for Making Marriage Work
By: Dr. John Gottman

Dr. John Gottman is widely considered the God Father of marriage research. If you enjoy learning about common ways to become successful in marriage that are founded in the “Love Lab” his personal marriage research facility, you will love this book. We use various Gottman research and technique when working with couples and we can tell you from personal experience, it is effective!

Purchase this book on Amazon here.

#6: Mindsight
By: Dr. Dan Siegel

Mindsight is a book about personal transformation. What you bring into the marriage matters almost more than anything. When we are able to understand how we “tick” and the science behind powerful change in our personal life and attachments, we can show up in a whole new way in our marriage. His book combines understanding mindfulness and insight into an easy to read, highly enjoyable deep dive into our own “self”.

Purchase this book on Amazon here.

#7: A Return to Love
By: Marianne Williamson

Marianne Williamson has this way of helping you understand what it looks like to return to a place of love. Her book will help you deep dive aspects of yourself that will help you show up as a more deeply loving spouse.

Purchase this book on Amazon here.

#8: Learning to Love Yourself
By: Dr. Gay Hendricks

This is another great book by Gay Hendricks that will help you do for yourself what you must do FIRST, before being able to do it for your spouse, and that is loving yourself.

As Christians, we believe love flows like this: We receive and accept God’s love for us, which is perfect. Then, once we receive, acknowledge, accept and FEEL that love, we are only then able to truly give that love to our spouse. This book will transform your marriage by helping you, maybe for the first time, truly love who YOU are; a child of God!

Purchase this book on Amazon here.

#9: The Way of the Superior Man
By: David Deida

This book contains an incredible deep dive about masculinity and femininity – two VERY key ideas we’ve spent a lot of time and money training around. If you do not understand the nature in which God made you as the feminine and masculine, you will cross wires with your spouse constantly.

WARNING: This book does contain several concepts that we do not personally align with, but the majority of the content is absolutely solid.

Purchase this book on Amazon here.

#10: The Big Leap
By: Dr. Gay Hendrick

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Another incredible book by Gay Hendricks that will help you learn about the unconscious limits you are most likely placing on your marriage, personal happiness, success and more. This was the book that we read that lead us to the Hendricks Institute.

Purchase this book on Amazon here.

BONUS BOOK #1: A Year of Marriage Connection
By: Austin & Rachel Holt

If you’re looking for a YEAR long workbook that contains 48 ways to create more connection in your marriage, look no further! We wrote this book based on years of working with couples so we’ve watched these connection techniques work time and time again.

Purchase this book on Amazon here.

BONUS BOOK #2: Our Favorite Bibles
By: God

If you’re looking for a larger print ESV(so you can read in low light in the peaceful mornings), beautiful Bible with great margins to write in as well, this is the Bible for you!

Purchase the bible Austin uses on Amazon here.

For a more feminine NIV journaling version, you can purchase Rachel's bible here . She loves it because it still fits in her bible bag she carries it everywhere in.

A Game You Can Play Right Now!

aholtmaster@gmail.com (Austin Holt) — Tue, 25 Jul 2023 04:26:15 GMT

try playing this game to learn a new way to remove drama from your life and marriage

We have a game for you, and it only requires you, right here, right now....

Make a list of the top 3-5 complaints you find yourself having about your spouse, or those you’re in close relationship with. Don't read ahead until you've done this.

Made the list?

Okay, keep reading...

Now ask yourself, "How do I enable this complaint?"

Too often, we see our complaints about others as being their “fault” or finding that they are “to blame” for how WE are feeling about ourselves. When a complaint happens more than 3 times, it’s typically our perception of someone's behavior that is the true source of the complaint.

When we take inventory of our common complaints we have with our spouse, and others, we begin to see patterns that help us find the real source of the issue.

Example: “People interrupt me all the time.”

Possible way to take responsibility rather than blame: " Maybe I’m not speaking in an assertive manner."

Example: “People criticize me.”

Way to take responsibility: “If I loved myself more, would I see criticism as feedback rather than attack?"

Example: “My spouse doesn’t notice when I’m upset.”

Way to take responsibility: “I actually haven’t communicated this honestly with my spouse.”

Our relationship with our spouse AND relationships with others can blossom in a new, and powerful way when we take ownership of our own complaints against others. They can reveal so many things that WE aren’t feeling, communicating or taking ownership for.

Try it today, and we guarantee you will experience freedom through this!

With love,

Austin & Rachel

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Missouri Amendment 3

Our State and our nation in crisis: the values of a follower of christ and the values setforth in Missouri amendment 3 are incompatable.

Episode 29: Coffee with Rachel: The Ultimate Shift for Women

The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast Episode 29: Coffee with Rachel: The Ultimate Shift for Women

Episode 28: 13 One-Liners to Take Your Marriage Levels Above Levels

The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast Episode 28: 13 One-Liners to Take Your Marriage Levels Above Levels

Episode 27: The 3 Keys to Becoming an Irresistible Wife

The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast Episode 27: The 3 Keys to Becoming an Irresistible Wife

Episode 26: The 3 Keys to Becoming an Irresistible Husband

The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast Episode 26: The 3 Keys to Becoming an Irresistible Husband

Episode 25: Did You Fall Off the Horse Again? Re-Committing to Excellence in Your Marriage

The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast - Episode 25: Did You Fall Off the Horse Again? Re-Committing to Excellence in Your Marriage

Episode 24: 3 Reasons Why Focusing on the SELF is Essential to Being Led by the SPIRIT

The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast - Episode 24: 3 Reasons Why Focusing on the SELF is Essential to Being Led by the SPIRIT

Episode 23: The Mindset that will 180 your marriage before the end of this episode.

The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast - Episode 23: The Mindset that will 180 your marriage before the end of this episode.

Episode 22: Encounter God's Favor: 3 Scriptures for Every Marriage

The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast Episode 22: Encounter God's Favor: 3 Scriptures for Every Marriage

Episode 21: Jesus Was Emotional Too: The Bible's Take on Your Feelings

The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast Episode 21: Jesus Was Emotional Too: The Bible's Take on Your Feelings

Episode 20: A Lack of Boundaries Will Destroy Your Marriage: Everything You Need to Know!

The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast - Episode 20: A Lack of Boundaries Will Destroy Your Marriage: Everything You Need to Know!

Episode 19: Coffee with Rachel

The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast Episode 19: Coffee with Rachel

Episode 18: Coffee with Austin: Discover His Secrets & Most Common Coaching Advice

The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast - Episode 18: Coffee with Austin: Discover His Secrets & Most Common Coaching Advice

Episode 17: Answering 3 Listener Submitted Questions

The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast Episode 17: Answering 3 Listener Submitted Questions

Episode 16: How to Rely on God and Also Get to Work.

The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast Episode 16: How to Rely on God and Also Get to Work.

Episode 15: Christians don't need counseling?

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Episode 14: Debunking 5 Mutual Exclusives That May Be Limiting Your Faith and Marriage.

The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast - Episode 14: Debunking 5 Mutual Exclusives That May Be Limiting Your Faith and Marriage.

Episode 13: Winning in the Bedroom

The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast Episode 13: Winning in the Bedroom

Episode 12: The Silent Killer in Your Marriage

The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast Episode 12: The Silent Killer in Your Marriage

Episode 11: How to be UNOFFENDABLE

The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast Episode 11: How to be UNOFFENDABLE

Episode 10: The Impact of Going All In On Your Marriage: Interview with Ashley Hardy

The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast - Episode 10: The Impact of Going All In On Your Marriage: Interview with Ashley Hardy

Episode 9: I know all the church answers, and I'm still anxious. Why?

The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast Episode 9: I know all the church answers, and I'm still anxious. Why?

Episode 8: I love my spouse so much – why do they drive me nuts sometimes?

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Episode 7: Should My Life & Marriage Revolve Around Church?

The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast Episode 7: Should My Life & Marriage Revolve Around Church?

Episode 6: Tips to Avoid Church Hurt and Burnout

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Episode 5: Stories, but Not the Kind You Might Think

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Episode 4: 3 Questions We Get All the Time

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Episode 3: The Impactful Shift All Conscious Christian Couples Make

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Episode 2: A Surefire Way to Eliminate Drama in Your Marriage

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Episode 1: Is this podcast for you? A Look Into the Conscious Christian Marriage

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Stephen + Alexis Losey: A Conscious Christian Marriage Story

philanthropists, business owners, Parents of 2, faith-focused and marriage centric

Jared + Mallory Robinson: A Conscious Christian Marriage Story

high-impact professionals, Parents of 3, active volunteers and marriage-focused

Kodie + Kenzie Burns: A Conscious Christian Marriage Story

busines Owners, Parents, farm life, ministry leaders and leveling up their marriage daily

Tony + Kelly Olson: A Conscious Christian Marriage Story

Multiple businesses, (3) busy boys, love for god and an amazing focus on marriage

The Power of Curiosity

how curiosity can shift everything

Thrive for Life Red Carpet Photos

A look into night 1 of our 3 day retreat

Thrive for Life 2023 Recap

A peek into the weekend that forever impacts legacys

A Little Backstory

A little peek into the beginning

Our (current) Top 10 Books on Marriage

Our Top 10 Books That Will Upgrade Your Marriage…

A Game You Can Play Right Now!

Our State and our nation in crisis:

the values of a follower of christ and the values setforth

in Missouri amendment 3 are incompatable.

The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast

Episode 29: Coffee with Rachel: The Ultimate Shift for Women

The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast

Episode 28: 13 One-Liners to Take Your Marriage Levels Above Levels

The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast

Episode 27: The 3 Keys to Becoming an Irresistible Wife

The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast
Episode 26: The 3 Keys to Becoming an Irresistible Husband

The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast
Episode 22: Encounter God's Favor: 3 Scriptures for Every Marriage

The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast
Episode 21: Jesus Was Emotional Too: The Bible's Take on Your Feelings

The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast
Episode 19: Coffee with Rachel

The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast

Episode 17: Answering 3 Listener Submitted Questions

The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast

Episode 16: How to Rely on God and Also Get to Work.

The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast

Episode 15: Christians don't need counseling?

The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast

Episode 13: Winning in the Bedroom

The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast
Episode 12: The Silent Killer in Your Marriage

The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast
Episode 11: How to be UNOFFENDABLE

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Episode 9: I know all the church answers, and I'm still anxious. Why?

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Episode 8: I love my spouse so much – why do they drive me nuts sometimes?

The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast
Episode 7: Should My Life & Marriage Revolve Around Church?

The Conscious Christian Marriage Podcast

Episode 6: Tips to Avoid Church Hurt and Burnout

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Episode 5: Stories, but Not the Kind You Might Think

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Episode 4: 3 Questions We Get All the Time

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Episode 3: The Impactful Shift All Conscious Christian Couples Make

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Episode 2: A Surefire Way to Eliminate Drama in Your Marriage

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