Pre-Marital Coaching
Start your marriage on the right blueprint instead of spending ten years unlearning the wrong one.
Before the Rings
Most engaged couples are handed a personality inventory, a budgeting worksheet, and a few conversations about in-laws. Useful, but it misses the thing that decides the next forty years: what you believe your marriage is for.
If you walk in believing marriage exists to make you happy, then the first time your future spouse names something true about you, it will feel like the whole thing is broken. It is not broken. God is using the person closest to you to make you more like Christ, and nobody told you that would be part of the deal.
Before you put the rings on, you need to know this: what looks like your spouse attacking you is often the Holy Spirit sharpening you.
The Blueprint gives you that frame first, then builds the practical skills on top of it. Agreements instead of expectations. Repair that is honest rather than convenient. A shared understanding of what you are consecrating your marriage to before you ever say the vows.
What We Cover
What it means to set your marriage apart for God before it begins, and how to actually pray it together.
Who you each are in Christ, so you stop asking your future spouse to affirm something only the Holy Spirit can.
How to build clear agreements about money, family, rhythms, and roles instead of quiet assumptions.
The wounds you are each bringing in, and how to keep them from becoming landmines your spouse steps on.
An honest, biblical conversation about sex, desire, and connection before the wedding night, not after.
What your marriage is for beyond the two of you, and how to build it that way from day one.
Austin and Rachel take on a very small number of pre-marital couples personally each year. When their calendar is full, we place couples with a trained CCM coach who teaches the same framework. Either way, you get the Blueprint.